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  • author ( 55, woman | Pomona, CA, USA )

    A nice dinner on the oceanfront with great conversation and chemistry. Of course tons of laughing and storytelling. Followed by an after dinner drink and then a walk along the ocean or marina., handho...  see more >>

  • author ( 59, woman | Oceanside, CA, USA )

    The first date should be simply uncomplicated. We need to talk, see mannerisms & determine if chemistry is present. Usually, I know within the first 30 minutes if I want to see my date for a second ti...  see more >>

  • author ( 51, woman | Lower Bavaria, Bayern, Germany )

    Going for a walk. Movement facilities conversation and expression better than sitting across from someone and squirming during the awkward silences. If I can't get you out of my mind after the walk, t...  see more >>

  • author ( 59, man | Philadelphia, PA, USA )

    Enjoy a nice dinner that's not too loud so we can get to know each other better. Laughing and inspirational dialogue is required :) Other options include concerts, comedy shows or any form of entertai...  see more >>

  • author ( 51, woman | Palm Beach Gardens, FL, USA )

    Dinner - French or Italian with an amazing bottle of wine. Followed by a walk on the beach or a drive near the beach. Day - weekend lunch outside staring at the ocean - living near the ocean- I like t...  see more >>

  • author ( 57, woman | Denton, TX, USA )

    I am such a homebody. I love to cook and enjoy someone's company. I'm very domestic and like to take care of people and spoil them! I was married to someone who was very selfish and cold, for 17 years...  see more >>

  • author ( 54, woman | Thompsons Station, TN, USA )

    A quiet dinner or place to get to know each. If that goes well and there is a connection, then on to something more fun.

  • author ( 54, man | Yelm, WA, USA )

    Coffee is always a great first date as expectations are minimum. At times, dinner can also be a great first date as long as there is a great conversation and lighting to be able to look into each othe...  see more >>

  • author ( 53, woman | Adelaide, South Australia, Australia )

    Going for a walk or a swim at the beach. Deep conversation and fun at the same time. Followed by a delicious meal or drink. Snuggling if the vibe is there! Taking in the energy of the beach and creati...  see more >>

  • author ( 50, woman | Springfield, IL, USA )

    I like to do a "coffee". Or if long distance, then I'm up for a Zoom. Not too much pressure. Not too much time commitment to see if a right fit. I like to get past the superficial pics and s...  see more >>

  • author ( 55, woman | Boston, MA, USA )

    Meet for a coffee and get to know each other a bit. Maybe second date could be a nice walk or hike or farmers market with breakfast or lunch. Museum or cooking class could work. I like car shows, thea...  see more >>

  • author ( 58, woman | Honolulu, HI, USA )

    Meet at Magic Island n enjoy ocean breeze, scenery, have a nice yummy picnic. Enjoy conversation getting to know each other. If there's chemistry go swimming & walk on the beach hand n hand watching s...  see more >>

  • author ( 50, man | Chicago, IL, USA )

    Is any place that we both can enjoy and enjoy the company of each other. That can range from dinner to a movie or sitting on the porch or deck and enjoying talking. Or just taking a ride and just site...  see more >>

  • author ( 51, man | Sarasota, FL, USA )

    My first date would be a comfortable setting. A drink or lunch, something casual. I want to make sure there is some chemistry. The second date I would like to something fun! Concert, boating, sporting...  see more >>

  • author ( 52, woman | Devonport, Tasmania, Australia )

    An easy walk before brunch, then a walk by a waterway after because we both want to make plans for when to talk & walk next. Or A restaurant sharing a seafood platter followed by an evening walk on th...  see more >>