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  • author ( 71, woman | Elkhart, IN, USA )

    IF there were to be a meeting it would be for coffee etc. Nothing major just a getting to know you time in a relaxed public atmosphere.

  • author ( 71, man | Los Gatos, CA, USA )

    I am open but someplace where we can talk and get to know each other better. Dinner would be nice of course.

  • author ( 75, man | Charleston, SC, USA )

    Should be a relaxed & leisurely time with no pressure to get back to work or keep an appointment. I prefer a dinner with enough time to get a feel for how someone thinks, and learn about values.

  • author ( 72, woman | Mesa, AZ, USA )

    A very leisurely dinner with a great bottle of wine, soft music and lots of time to get to know each other.

  • author ( 71, man | Anaheim, CA, USA )

    Dinner at a very comfortable restaurant where you can have a meaningful conversation and feel if a great chemistry exists.

  • author ( 75, man | Dallas, TX, USA )

    Good Food, Good Wine and a great Lady to enjoy it all - Here, there or wherever, but always to enjoy the time.

  • author ( 77, woman | Los Angeles, CA, USA )

    Coffee, Tea, Lunch or Dinner. Overlooking the ocean at sunset would be lovely, but perhaps a bit early in the game for something so romantic. But I would just like to take time and get to know some fu...  see more >>

  • author ( 70, man | Fort Pierce, FL, USA )

    A fun cruise along A1A feeling the wind in our faces and stopping somewhere along the way to walk barefoot in the sand.

  • author ( 70, woman | Kelowna, BC, CAN )

    Moonlight dinner and a walk on the beach is so cliche'. Do people really do that anymore. I understand that you have to meet, but to me something far more simple is the only thing required. Go for a w...  see more >>

  • author ( 75, man | Boulder, COLORADO, USA )

    Conversation is extremely important, and that can be done in so many ways that I would not want to limit them to "walking the beach" or "getting a cup of coffee" or the like.

  • author ( 70, man | Sacramento, CA, USA )

    my first encounter i wouldn't really call it a date so much as an introduction. i am very open and flexible and will listen to what my lady desires or i will be glad to pick for the both of us.

  • author ( 77, woman | BC, CAN )

    A nice lunch or dinner where we can talk and enjoy each others company. Maybe followed or proceeded by a walk, a park visit or outdoor activity.

  • author ( 72, man | Scottsdale, AZ, USA )

    First dates for me are intended to establish comfortable, open and honest communications, determine desirability for further dates and compatibility for potential relationship. AND Of COURSE to determ...  see more >>

  • author ( 72, woman | Tustin, CA, USA )

    A quiet dinner where we could talk & talk & talk. We would discuss our dream relationship our families and the fun things we have done in our lives. Where isn't as important as is the person you are w...  see more >>

  • author ( 71, woman | Livonia, MICHIGAN, USA )

    I think a first meeting should be short and sweet..... After all....I do not want someone to suffer through a complete date if we feel it's not right and sometimes people are afraid to speak up and sa...  see more >>