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  • author ( 63, man | Scottsdale, AZ, USA )

    I guess they're looking for something extraordinary be honest I like first dates to be simple, like meeting for a glass of red wine and having a few appetizers while we get to know eachothe...  see more >>

  • author ( 64, woman | Fort Lauderdale, FL, USA )

    How about meeting for a nice glass of wine or a latte so we can see if we want to spend more time getting to know each other.

  • author ( 72, woman | Laguna Woods, CA, USA )

    A quiet lunch or dinner where we can connect, talk, check out our chemistry and get acquainted. A drive down the coast, or something romantic, unexpected, a harbor cruise, wine tasting, surprise me.

  • author ( 58, woman | Hilton Head Island, SC, USA )

    Meeting for drinks at an outdoor venue on the water with live music, followed by tapas or dinner at local bistro ;)

  • author ( 54, man | Fort Lauderdale, FL, USA )

    Meet at a simple place that is easy and quite for both of us to relax and have a conversation. Bars or clubs or anyplace with loud music are not a place to meet.

  • author ( 68, woman | Mesa, AZ, USA )

    Our first date can be in a quiet restaurant, with a glass of wine and dinner if we find we are attracted to one another, holding hands and listening to soft music playing in the background as we gaze...  see more >>

  • author ( 67, man | Fort Myers, FL, USA )

    I wouldn't call it a first date but a meet and greet encounter. Any public convenient spot will work. Once we develop the rapport we both expect, we can take it from there. It's all about options. It...  see more >>

  • author ( 54, woman | Mount Holly, NJ, USA )

    I enjoy going somewhere to eat , drink and have some laughs. Get to know each other and make new friends if nothing else...... :)

  • author ( 72, man | Toronto, ONTARIO, CAN )

    A simple meeting for drink or coffee to see that each of us are who we say we are and if there is any chemistry

  • author ( 68, woman | Arlington, TX, USA )

    Meet in a quiet place or at least interludes of quiet to get to know each other and see into each others eyes. The chance to know the person beyond the internet and the phone. Catch a glimpse of each...  see more >>

  • author ( 54, man | New York, NY, USA )

    I'm spontaneous and flexible. But drinks are usually a good first date ice breaker. And if there is a spark that can proceed to dinner or to a more planned out second date. Lets face it, until you KNO...  see more >>

  • author ( 57, woman | Denver, CO, USA )

    Ah, if only we were at the ocean. But alas we are not. I like first dates to be quiet, intimate, cozy, perhaps at a low-key, mellow restaurant or bar.

  • author ( 64, woman | Yarmouth, ME, USA )

    Portland has numerous restaurants in the Old Port area. It would be great to start at one of those for a get acquainted drink then move on to another for dinner and another for dessert.

  • author ( 70, woman | Farmington, MI, USA )

    I rather enjoy having a glass of wine or cocktail sitting at a bar - I like the way the stools

  • author ( 54, woman | Gulfport, MS, USA )

    A short but sweet meet at first for a drink ( Biloxi/Gulfport MS casino anyone?) so that we dont feel obliged for dinner...unless we click.