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  • author ( 45, woman | New York, NY, USA )

    For a first meeting, I find its best to meet for a short time- for a coffee or tea, or a drink at a nice wine bar-- just to see if there is any chemistry and compatibility.

  • author ( 65, man | Jefferson Park, IL, USA )

    defineltydrinks, a comfortable setting, coffee seems more like a job interview, and definelty no preasure.........have a great day and goodluck in your searches

  • author ( 63, man | Utrecht, Utrecht, Netherlands )

    A drink, locally to see that we both are what we have suggested to the other...(I am not cynical, I am experienced..)

  • author ( 54, woman | Horsham, PA, USA )

    For a first date, I like to keep it light.....meet for coffee or a drink, talk a little, and then we can continue somewhere else, or make plans for a second date.

  • author ( 56, man | Boca Raton, FL, USA )

    Hmmm.. Get to know each other over a few drinks at a nice bar sounds about right, with much more 'imaginative' date ideas tailored to our likes after our first encounter !

  • author ( 43, man | Chicago, IL, USA )

    First dates can be tricky. I prefer a casual setting to get to know you and see if there is any chemistry.

  • author ( 59, woman | Dallas, TX, USA )

    A restaurant/hotel bar with a casual atmosphere......sometimes the crowds and noise help break the ice...but hopefully, we have already been communicatating so this shouldn't be awkward.

  • author ( 42, woman | Lincoln, Lincoln, GBR )

    I really enjoy talking and learning things about people so a quiet meal or walk in the park woud be ideal to get to know eachother better.

  • author ( 46, man | Austin, TX, USA )

    Meet in public over some coffee or drinks. Chat online or by webcam to see if we have the connectioin first.

  • author ( 38, man | New York, NY, USA )

    Before writing my own first date ideas, I've checked some good examples just like top 10 first date ideas, top 21 first date ideas, ... However, I just cannot agree with them all. My first date idea m...  see more >>

  • author ( 55, woman | Orlando, FL, USA )

    Let's not call it a date. Let's call it two people who are looking for the same thing and meet as friends. Go home after and text each other a yes or no with no regrets of hurting that person. If its...  see more >>

  • author ( 55, man | Laguna Niguel, CA, USA )

    Someplace nice, but can be simple, where we can hear each other and get to know each other a bit better

  • author ( 62, man | Converse, IN, USA )

    I truly believe that a first dates magic comes from the interaction leading up to it.. I do enjoy fine dining and great wine.. however, depending on the person and the evolution of the relationship ma...  see more >>

  • author ( 43, man | Peoria, IL, USA )

    Dancing and drinks until we get tired of the loud music and we slip away to my place for fun and flirty conversation until the sun rises.

  • author ( 63, man | Chicago, IL, USA )

    Our first date will be light and short. A get to know each other in a public place to see if we have some chemistry. If yes, we can plan more for next time. If no, so go our separate ways.