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  • author ( 44, woman | Portland, OR, USA )

    Meeting at a Sushi Bar for sushi and drinks, even if you don't like sushi, there's always something else on the menu! Going to catch a movie, show or a concert afterwards. Having an intelligent talk a...  see more >>

  • author ( 56, woman | Eagle Creek, OR, USA )

    I feel a public place is necessary, like a fun bar for drinks then maybe dinner or depending on chemistry, I love to go out, love live music, dancing, movies, clubs, people watching.

  • author ( 72, man | Hermitage, TN, USA )

    Sitting on a beach, drinking great wine or Mojitos and enjoying a beautiful sunset while having a great conversation.

  • author ( 31, woman | New York, NY, USA )

    We can meet at a nice wine bar that has some music, just not so loud so we can still talk. I love the atmosphere at these places and its perfect for getting to know someone without the distraction of...  see more >>

  • author ( 59, woman | San Diego, CA, USA )

    Meet for a drink and then go for a stroll on the beach and chat to see if there's a connection or laughter to share.

  • author ( 59, woman | Miami, FL, USA )

    A beach bar at sunset where music and champagne warm the magic of the moment (I know that place!).....And you and me thinking, without saying anything, that this is our last first date... no one aroun...  see more >>

  • author ( 55, woman | Stoke-on-Trent, England - Staffordshire, GBR )

    A few glasses of vino in a country pub or trendy wine bar, or maybe a coffee, or maybe just a walk ( in this current climate!) As long as we can have a good chat and get to learn more about each other...  see more >>

  • author ( 56, woman | Mornington Peninsula, Victoria, Australia )

    Happy to meet over a drink, lunch, dinner etc. I think you need a certain amount of time to get to know each other. Also happy for a surprise date as well. I do like surprises and let the man take cha...  see more >>

  • author ( 65, woman | Chandler, AZ, USA )

    Either happy hour or going to a baseball game and yelling for the team to love or for the team you don't like. Lots of good energy!

  • author ( 50, man | Las Vegas, NV, USA )

    Ocean front resort, cool breeze, and umberla drinks in hand, with a preplaned retreat to the bungalo to relax a bit before exploring the night life.

  • author ( 39, woman | Toronto, ON, CAN )

    Meeting you for drinks somewhere quiet enough that we can discuss our common interest. I'm attracted to intellectual conversation by which we can exchange ideas or learn from each other's experience...  see more >>

  • author ( 52, woman | Denver, CO, USA )

    Drinks always take the nervousness away but I usually like to see if there is a spark in the online conversation first then see if there is that physical attraction if we meet. The second date is the...  see more >>

  • author ( 45, man | Glendale, AZ, USA )

    Convenient and comfortable, meaning if you don't drink alcoholic beverages, coffee will do just fine.

  • author ( 48, woman | Shrewsbury, NJ, USA )

    Having a drink, laughing and getting to know someone would be my first date choice. It's not about the place, setting or atmosphere as much as the company. I'm hopeful by going online and finally havi...  see more >>

  • author ( 72, woman | Falmouth, ME, USA )

    If my date is local, Ill like to meet him over a drink or a coffee, if far, we can talk over the phone, Facetime , Skype or other; eventually organize to meet in person over our first dinner.