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  • author ( 65, woman | Chandler, AZ, USA )

    Either happy hour or going to a baseball game and yelling for the team to love or for the team you don't like. Lots of good energy!

  • author ( 50, man | Las Vegas, NV, USA )

    Ocean front resort, cool breeze, and umberla drinks in hand, with a preplaned retreat to the bungalo to relax a bit before exploring the night life.

  • author ( 39, woman | Toronto, ON, CAN )

    Meeting you for drinks somewhere quiet enough that we can discuss our common interest. I'm attracted to intellectual conversation by which we can exchange ideas or learn from each other's experience...  see more >>

  • author ( 52, woman | Denver, CO, USA )

    Drinks always take the nervousness away but I usually like to see if there is a spark in the online conversation first then see if there is that physical attraction if we meet. The second date is the...  see more >>

  • author ( 45, man | Glendale, AZ, USA )

    Convenient and comfortable, meaning if you don't drink alcoholic beverages, coffee will do just fine.

  • author ( 48, woman | Shrewsbury, NJ, USA )

    Having a drink, laughing and getting to know someone would be my first date choice. It's not about the place, setting or atmosphere as much as the company. I'm hopeful by going online and finally havi...  see more >>

  • author ( 72, woman | Falmouth, ME, USA )

    If my date is local, Ill like to meet him over a drink or a coffee, if far, we can talk over the phone, Facetime , Skype or other; eventually organize to meet in person over our first dinner.

  • author ( 24, woman | Alexandria, VA, USA )

    Meeting up, having a drink or two to calm my nerves haha and just chatting and getting to know each other

  • author ( 50, woman | Beverly Hills, CA, USA )

    I prefer to meet for a drink at an elegant lounge. I think if two people hit it off, they can move it to dinner. If not, it's short and sweet. But, certainly expect to chat on the phone before this, t...  see more >>

  • author ( 48, man | Placentia, CA, USA )

    I would like to meet for a drink or coffee, even though I dont drink coffee. I can always drink hot chocolate or another drink.

  • author ( 52, woman | Dana Point, CA, USA )

    Anywhere that allows us to get to know one another. The theatre or symphony don't allow for that and neither does a hike or bike when we're out of breath and trying to keep up with each other!

  • author ( 46, woman | Panama, Panama, Panama )

    Somewhere we can talk and listen to music in the back ground. Have some drinks and have my date walk me home.

  • author ( 33, woman | Long Beach, CA, USA )

    A cocktail, dinner, or lunch...we could take in an exhibition at a museum or people watch in the park. Anything but coffee, we are not in rocking chairs just yet!

  • author ( 51, woman | Los Angeles, CA, USA )

    I think it's best to keep it casual the first date. I'd prefer to meet somewhere for a drink to start with, and then continue with lunch or dinner if we like each other and have time, or meet for lunc...  see more >>

  • author ( 66, woman | Encino, CA, USA )

    Let's get together for a chilled glass of Pinot Grigio or a delicious slightly cooled Cabernet Sauvignon. Perhaps a bite at a quaint Cafe or Bistro. Either way, a place where we can talk and get to kn...  see more >>